Category: the Rant Board
Why is it that people are mean when in public, but in private they are as nice as ever to you? I think it's human psychology. People don't get the action they want in private than in public.
I could never understand that. I am how I am whether it's public or private. I'm not a fony. I've heard, though, that it has to do with a persona. Maybe, they want to show ofr or to look tough.
I have found the opposite. Peple are nice up to your face, and when they're around others, they're jerks.
I am who I am, public or private. I've heard of people being nice to you in public, but mean in private. I think that's weird.
I think people are more cruel when you are serving a country of a president they don't like, and they take it out on you.
I am not fake like that and people who are can kiss my ass.
This is one of those questions where you might have to end up just shrugging and saying, "Earthlings, can't figure the lot of them." But I'll go along with the idea that some folks think they have to be the badass in public because they think it impresses people. Me, I might speak my mind and prefer to call things as I see them, but I see no profit or benefit to myself by being cruel to people. If I don't like a person, I just don't interact with them instead of pursuing them and constantly bombarding them with insults that will not make them change into the kind of person I want them to be anyhow. Waste of time and energy, really.